1;My first and foremost advice is to fear Allah.Be obedient servant.Carefully guard the rope which connects you with Him for no other connection can be stronger more durable than this command greater respect.He who is the Master of death is also the Master of life.
2;As far as your behaviour with other human beings is concerned let your self act as a scale to help you judge its goodness or wickedness.Do unto others as you wish others to do onto you.
3;Whatever you like for yourself, like it for others .Whatever you dislike for yourself spare others from it.
4;Do not oppress and tyrannise anybody as you surely do not wish to be oppressed or tyrannised .
5;Be kind and sympathetic to others as you surely want others to treat you kindly and sympathetically.
6;Whatever habits you find hateful in others abstain from developing those habits.
7;Do not speak about others in the way you do not like others to speak about you.
8;Vanity and conceit will bring you serious harm and will be a constant source of danger to you.Therefore lead a well balanced life.Neither be conceited nor suffer from inferiority complex and exert yourself to earn an honest living.Do not be proud rather be humble and bow to Him whenever you achieve the thing you desire and realise that your success due to His mercy and favour.
9;You must also know that you cannot have every wish of yours granted.You cannot to escape death nor the day of judgement; and you are passing the days of your life as others have done before you.Therefore control your desires cravings expectations.Be moderate in your demands; earn your livelihood through honest means and be content with it .Go slowly and do not let your desires drive you mad because there are many desires which lead you towards disappointment and loss.
10;He who controls his desires has self respect.He does not beg or pray for things and will not always remain unlucky or disappointed.So do not bring down yourself respect; do not be mean and submissive.
11;Nothing in this world;d can compensate the loss of self respect nobility of mind and honour .Wages earn through hard but respectable and honourable labour or better than which may gather through sin and wickedness and poverty is better than the disgrace and humiliation of begging.
12;Do not make yourself a slave of anybody.Allah has created you a free man.Do not sell your freedom at any cost or in return for anything.If you can succeed in having nobody as your benefactor but Allah then he will grant you your share.No that there two kinds of livelihood; one you are searching for and the other which is in search of your.It will reach you if you do not try to obtain it.
Acha a per apni adat chadi ni tu...Point number 8.
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